A REQUIEM FOR MANHOOD
Abstract
Once upon a time, there was a world in which men could establish a healthy collective identity by contributing to society something that was distinctive, necessary and publicly valued. That is no longer true. The Rider explores one example of this problem: Lakota men in a world with no room for them specifically as men. That world is no more, not among them and not among us, although it did exist within living memory. This becomes clear by comparing The Rider with an older movie about manhood: The Best Years of Our Lives. Instead of mourning a significant loss that afflicts everyone, directly or indirectly, feminists have reacted by claiming that masculinity is inherently "toxic." This article is a personal response.
Keywords: feminism, gender, movies, identity, maleness, manhood, masculinity, men, toxic masculinity